How do we deal with our problems?
Rich or poor, young or old, we all have p______. And u____
we d____ with our problems, we e_____ become unhappy. Worrying about our problems can a_____ how we do at school. It can also
i______ the way we b______ with our families. So how do we deal with our problems? There are many w_____. 1.By learning to forget Most of us have probably been a____ with our friends, parents
or teachers. Perhaps they said something you didn't like, or you felt u_____. Sometimes, people can stay angry for years about a small problem. Time g____ by, and good f_______ may be l_____.
When we are angry, h_____, we are usually the ones affected.
Perhaps we have seen young children playing t_____. Sometimes they have d_________, and decide not to talk to e_____ o____. However, this usually does not l_____ for long. This is an important l_____ for us: we can solve a problem by learning to f_____. 2.By regarding problems as challenges Many students often c_____ about school. They might feel they have too much work to do sometimes, or think the rules are too s_____. We must learn how to c_____ these \"problems\" i_____ \"challenges\". Education is an important part of our d_________. As young adults, it is our d_____ to try our best to deal with each c______ in our education with the h_____ of our teachers. 3.By thinking of something worse By c_______ yourself to other people, you will find your
problems are not so t______. Think about Stephen Hawking, for example, a very clever s______, who r_______ his many physical problems as unimportant. He can't walk or even speak, but he has
become very famous and s________. We are probably quite healthy and smart. Let's not worry about problems. Let's f____ the challenges i______.
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我们如何处理我们的问题
富有或穷,年轻或年老,我们都有问题。除非我们解决了我们的问题,我们很容易变得不高兴。担心我们的问题会影响到我们在学校的表现。它也能影响我们和家人相处的表现方式。那么,我们要如何处理我们的问题呢?有很多种方式。 学会忘记
我们绝大多数人也许因为我们的朋友,家长,老师生气。也许他们说一些你不喜欢的,或者让你感到不公平的。有时,人们会因为一个小问题生几年的气。随着时间的流逝,良好的友谊可能会失去。 但是当我们生气时,我们通常是受害者。也许我们已经见过孩子们一起玩耍。有时他们有争议,并且决定彼此不说话。然而,这种情况并不会持续很长时间。这对我们是重要的一课:我们可以通过学着去忘记来解决问题。 视问题为挑战
很多学生常常抱怨学校。有时,他们可能会感觉到他们有太多的工作要做,或认为规定过于严格。我们必须学会如何将这些“问题”转换成“挑战”。教育是我们发展中的一个重要部分。作为年轻人,我们有责任在老师的帮助下尽力处理我们教育中的每一个挑战。 想象更糟的事
通过把自己和别人比较,你会发现你的问题不是那么可怕。想想斯蒂芬霍金,一个非常聪明的科学家,他认为他身体方面的许多问题并不重要。他不能走甚至不能说话,但他变的很著名也很成功。我们或许是非常地健康和聪明。我们不要担心问题。而是要面对挑战。
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